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Fear of Abandonment: When Love Feels Unsafe

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What Is Fear of Abandonment?

Fear of abandonment is the deep-seated belief that the people you love will eventually leave you—physically, emotionally, or both. This fear can make relationships feel unstable, even when they are healthy. It can cause you to cling tightly to people or push them away to avoid the pain of losing them.

While it’s natural to fear loss, abandonment anxiety is different—it shapes how you behave in relationships, often leading to self-sabotaging patterns.

How Fear of Abandonment Develops

This fear often begins in childhood but can also come from later experiences.

Common causes include:

Childhood neglect or inconsistent caregiving – If a parent was emotionally or physically unavailable, you may have learned that love is unpredictable.

Parental divorce or separation – Seeing a parent leave, even if it wasn’t intentional abandonment, can make love feel temporary.

Loss of a loved one – Experiencing death or separation early in life can create anxiety about losing people in the future.

Traumatic breakups or betrayals – If a past partner left unexpectedly or was unfaithful, you may struggle to trust in stability.

Signs of Fear of Abandonment in Relationships

Clinginess or excessive need for reassurance – Feeling anxious when a partner is distant or unavailable.

Fear of being alone – Staying in unhealthy relationships to avoid loneliness.

Overreacting to small signs of withdrawal – A delayed text or a canceled plan can trigger panic.

Sabotaging relationships – Testing a partner’s love by creating conflict or withdrawing emotionally.

Difficulty trusting others – Assuming people will leave, even if there’s no evidence of it.

How It Affects Relationships

Fear of abandonment creates a cycle:

  • You feel insecure in the relationship.
  • You seek excessive reassurance or control.
  • Your partner feels overwhelmed and withdraws.
  • This withdrawal reinforces your fear, making you cling tighter or push them away.
  • Over time, this pattern can exhaust relationships, making the fear a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Healing from Fear of Abandonment

Recognize the Fear
Ask yourself: Do I overreact to small signs of distance? Do I fear people will leave even when there’s no real threat?

Challenge Negative Beliefs
Not everyone leaves. Remind yourself that past experiences do not determine your future relationships.

Work on Self-Security
Practice self-soothing instead of relying solely on others for emotional stability.

Communicate Without Panic
Instead of reacting out of fear, express your needs calmly: “I feel anxious when there’s distance, but I want to work through it together.”

Learn to Be Okay Alone
Develop hobbies, friendships, and self-care routines that make you feel whole, with or without a relationship.

Seek Therapy If Needed
A therapist can help address deep-rooted abandonment wounds and guide you toward healthier relationship patterns.

Healing this fear allows you to experience love without constant anxiety, creating healthier and more secure relationships.

Next, we’ll explore Emotional Unavailability: When Love Feels Distant

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How Trauma Pushes People to Dating Apps

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Trauma, especially relational trauma (from past breakups, attachment wounds, abandonment, or betrayal), can shape how people engage with romance. Here’s how it plays into the shift toward dating apps like Tinder:

1. Fear of Deeper Emotional Vulnerability – Traditional dating often requires emotional investment early on, which can feel risky for those with trauma. Dating apps allow people to control their engagement level, delaying or avoiding deep emotional exposure.

2. Dissociation and Numbing – Some trauma survivors struggle with emotional numbness or detachment, making them crave quick dopamine hits from matches, messages, or hookups instead of sustained emotional bonding.

3. Avoidance of Rejection or Judgment– Apps allow users to curate their interactions, reducing real-world rejection. Someone with past relationship trauma might find safety in being able to ghost or block someone instantly if they feel triggered.

4. Seeking Validation and Control – Swiping gives an illusion of control, especially for those who’ve felt powerless in past relationships. Matches and compliments provide quick self-esteem boosts.

5. Fear of In-Person Intimacy– Trauma can make in-person dating feel overwhelming. Apps provide a sense of distance, allowing people to engage at their own pace or keep things casual.

6. Impulse and Risk-Taking – Trauma survivors sometimes engage in impulsive or self-sabotaging behaviors. Casual encounters on apps can be an outlet for this, offering excitement without emotional stakes.

7. Preference for Non-Committal Relationships – Some trauma survivors struggle with commitment due to fears of loss or betrayal. Dating apps cater well to short-term or low-investment connections.

Profile of Tinder/Dating App Users

Users of dating apps can be broadly categorized based on motivations and behaviors. Here’s a general breakdown:

1. The Explorers (Curious & Open-Minded)

  • New to dating apps, using them for fun.
  • Open to different kinds of relationships.
  • Likely to experiment with different app features.

2. The Casual Daters (Low Commitment Seekers)

  • Enjoy the excitement of swiping and chatting but avoid serious emotional attachment.
  • Often juggling multiple matches at once.
  • Might seek friends with benefits rather than serious relationships.

3. The Validation Seekers (Self-Esteem Boosters)

  • Use the app primarily for attention and reassurance.
  • Engage in conversations but rarely meet in person.
  • Often post highly curated or edited photos for maximum appeal.

4. The Serial Monogamists (Relationship-Driven Users)

  • Seeking serious, long-term connections.
  • Thoughtful in their matches, taking time to get to know people.
  • Likely to have had prior long-term relationships and are looking to settle down.

5. The Healing Hearts (Recently Out of a Relationship/Trauma Survivors)

  • Using the app to cope with breakups or emotional wounds.
  • May oscillate between seeking deep emotional connections and casual encounters.
  • Can be hesitant about commitment but crave human connection.

6. The Opportunists (Hookup-Centric Users)

  • Primarily looking for physical intimacy without emotional involvement.
  • May not engage in much conversation beyond setting up meetings.
  • Often keep their profile vague and don’t invest in personal details.

7. The Social Networkers (Friendship & Networking Seekers)

  • Less focused on romance and more on making new friends or business connections.
  • Interested in deep conversations but may not always want to meet in person.
  • Often present themselves authentically without exaggerated profiles…
  • Next, we shall go back to When love feels unsafe

Fear of Rejection: The Silent Relationship Killer

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What Is Fear of Rejection?

Fear of rejection is the deep-rooted anxiety that if people see the real you, they will leave, dismiss, or criticize you. It often stems from childhood experiences, past relationships, or social conditioning. This fear can shape how you behave in relationships, making you avoid vulnerability, suppress your needs, or tolerate unhealthy dynamics just to feel accepted.

How Fear of Rejection Develops

This fear often starts early in life and can be caused by:

Conditional love in childhood – If love was given only when you behaved a certain way, you learned that your worth depends on pleasing others.

Past romantic or social rejection – A painful breakup, betrayal, or social exclusion can create deep emotional wounds.

Overly critical parents or caregivers – If you were frequently judged, you may have internalized the belief that being yourself is not enough.

Abandonment experiences – Being left, physically or emotionally, can make rejection feel unbearable.
When rejection wounds aren’t healed, they can silently dictate how you show up in relationships.

Signs of Fear of Rejection in Relationships

  • Struggling to express your needs because you fear pushing the other person away.
  • Becoming a people-pleaser to avoid conflict or abandonment.
  • Holding back emotions to appear “easygoing” or “low maintenance.”
  • Overanalyzing people’s words and actions for signs of rejection.
  • Clinging to relationships that are unhealthy just to avoid being alone.
  • Sabotaging relationships by pushing people away before they leave you.

How It Affects Relationships

Fear of rejection can create self-sabotaging patterns, such as:

Attracting unavailable partners – Because deep down, you expect rejection, you may unconsciously choose people who reinforce that belief.
Emotional withdrawal – You hold back your true feelings, making it hard for genuine connection to grow.
Over-apologizing and overcompensating – You work too hard to make people stay, often at your own expense.
Jealousy and insecurity – You assume the worst when your partner doesn’t respond as expected.

Healing from Fear of Rejection

Recognize Your Fear
Ask yourself: Do I suppress my needs out of fear of being abandoned? Acknowledging your fear is the first step.

Reframe Rejection
Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy—it often means you weren’t aligned with that person. Not everyone is meant to stay in your life, and that’s okay.

Learn to Express Your Needs
Start small. Practice saying things like, “I need reassurance,” or “I feel hurt when you ignore my messages.” You deserve to be heard.

Stop Over-Accommodating
You don’t have to overextend yourself to keep people. The right people will love you for who you are, not for what you do for them.
Build Self-Worth Outside of Relationships
When your worth is independent of others’ approval, rejection loses its power. Engage in activities that build your confidence and remind you of your value.

Challenge the Fear
Ask yourself, What’s the worst that could happen if I express my true feelings? Often, the answer is not as catastrophic as your mind imagines.

Healing from fear of rejection means learning to trust that being yourself is enough. When you do, you’ll attract relationships where you don’t have to shrink or perform to be loved.

Next, we’ll explore Fear of Abandonment: When Love Feels Unsafe.

Emotional Neglect: When Love Wasn’t Enough

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What Is Emotional Neglect?

Emotional neglect happens when a person’s emotional needs go unmet—not because of abuse but because they were ignored, dismissed, or invalidated over time. Unlike physical neglect, which is visible, emotional neglect is often subtle and unrecognized. Many people who experience it struggle to pinpoint why they feel empty, disconnected, or unworthy of love.

How Emotional Neglect Develops

Emotional neglect often stems from childhood experiences where caregivers failed to provide emotional support, validation, or attention.

This can happen when:

Parents were emotionally unavailable – They may have been too busy, distracted, or dealing with their own struggles.
Feelings were dismissed or ignored – Phrases like “Stop crying, it’s not a big deal” or “You’re overreacting” teach a child that their emotions don’t matter.
There was a lack of affection – If a household lacked hugs, encouragement, or emotional warmth, a child might grow up feeling unseen.
Independence was forced too early – Being praised for “being strong” and “not needing help” can make a child suppress their emotional needs.
Because emotional neglect isn’t always obvious, many people grow up thinking their childhood was “fine” while still feeling deeply unfulfilled in relationships.

Signs of Emotional Neglect in Adults

  • Difficulty expressing emotions or identifying feelings.
  • Feeling emotionally numb or disconnected.
  • Struggling with low self-worth and feeling “not enough.”
  • Pushing people away when emotional closeness is needed.
  • Fear of being a burden when asking for support.
  • Attracting emotionally unavailable partners.
  • Feeling deeply alone, even in relationships.

How It Affects Relationships

If emotional neglect taught you that your feelings don’t matter, you may:

  • Struggle to communicate your emotional needs.
  • Feel uncomfortable with emotional intimacy.
  • Subconsciously choose partners who also avoid emotions.
  • Feel lonely in relationships, even when physically present.

People with emotional neglect often crave deep connection but don’t know how to receive it. This can lead to one-sided relationships where they give more than they receive, hoping to earn love.

Healing from Emotional Neglect

Recognise Your Emotional Needs
Start by checking in with yourself: What do I feel right now? What do I need emotionally? Developing emotional awareness is key.

Learn to Express Your Emotions
Practice sharing your feelings, even if it feels uncomfortable. A simple “I feel sad” or “I need comfort” is a good start.

Reframe Asking for Help
You are not a burden. Seeking support is not a weakness. It’s okay to ask for love, reassurance, and emotional connection.

Choose Emotionally Available Relationships
Surround yourself with people who validate emotions and create space for vulnerability.

Consider Therapy
A therapist can help you process past neglect and learn how to nurture yourself emotionally.

Healing from emotional neglect means giving yourself the love and validation you didn’t receive. When you do, your relationships will transform, becoming places of true connection rather than quiet loneliness.

Next, we’ll explore Fear of Rejection: The Silent Relationship Killer.

Fear of Abandonment: How It Shapes Love and Relationships

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What Is Fear of Abandonment?

Fear of abandonment is a deep-seated fear that the people you love will leave you. It can stem from childhood experiences, past relationships, or even subtle emotional neglect. This fear doesn’t always show up as obvious insecurity—it can manifest in over-attachment, emotional withdrawal, or difficulty trusting others.
People who experience abandonment fears often struggle with emotional regulation, overthink their relationships, and feel anxious about being “too much” or “not enough.” These fears can make healthy relationships difficult, as they can create cycles of emotional instability, jealousy, or extreme dependence.

How Fear of Abandonment Develops

This fear often takes root in early childhood. It can be caused by:

A parent leaving or being emotionally unavailable – This could be due to death, divorce, workaholism, or emotional coldness.
Inconsistent caregiving – If love felt unpredictable, you may have learned that connection is fragile.

Early rejection or betrayal – Whether from family, friends, or a first romantic partner, these experiences can reinforce the fear that people will leave.

A history of unstable relationships – Repeated heartbreaks can deepen the belief that love isn’t secure.

Signs of Fear of Abandonment in Relationships

  • Clinging to relationships, even when they are unhealthy
  • Feeling anxious when a partner is distant or busy
  • Over-analyzing texts, behaviors, or minor changes in affection
  • Pushing people away to avoid getting hurt
  • Struggling to feel secure, even in a loving relationship
  • Becoming jealous or possessive out of fear of losing someone
  • Feeling unworthy of love and constantly needing reassurance

How It Affects Relationships
The fear of abandonment can lead to behaviors that push partners away, even though the goal is to keep them close. Some people become overly dependent, constantly seeking validation. Others become avoidant, leaving before they can be left. These patterns create emotional instability, preventing deep, healthy connections from forming.

Healing Fear of Abandonment

Recognize Your Triggers
Identify situations that make you feel abandoned. Is it when your partner takes time for themselves? When they don’t text back immediately? Understanding your triggers helps you respond intentionally rather than react emotionally.

Challenge Negative Thoughts
When abandonment fears arise, question them. Is your partner truly pulling away, or is your fear distorting reality? Remind yourself that love isn’t defined by constant closeness—it’s about trust and emotional safety.

Develop Self-Security
Learn to self-soothe rather than relying solely on others for reassurance. Engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment outside of relationships.

Practice Secure Attachment Habits
Instead of acting on impulse, communicate calmly. For example, instead of saying, “You don’t care about me,” say, “I feel a little anxious when we don’t talk much. Can we check in more?”

Seek Professional Support
Therapy or coaching can help you unpack past wounds, reframe attachment patterns, and build healthier relationship habits.

Healing from fear of abandonment isn’t about ensuring people never leave—it’s about developing emotional security, whether they stay or go.

Next, we’ll discuss Emotional Neglect: When Love Wasn’t Enough

Growing Up in a Household with Unhealthy Conflict: How It Shapes Your Relationships

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What Is Unhealthy Conflict?

Conflict is a normal part of life, but the way it is handled in childhood shapes how we navigate relationships as adults. Some people grow up in homes where conflict is frequent, aggressive, and unpredictable, while others experience silent tension—conflict that isn’t openly discussed but lingers in the air. In both cases, the message a child receives is the same: conflict is unsafe.

If you grew up in a household with unhealthy conflict, you likely learned one of two responses—either to fear conflict and avoid it at all costs or to repeat the same unhealthy patterns in your own relationships. In adulthood, this can lead to difficulty expressing needs, shutting down emotionally, or engaging in explosive arguments that mirror the past.

Signs That You Were Affected by Unhealthy Conflict

  • You avoid confrontation, even when something is bothering you.
  • You feel anxious or unsafe during disagreements.
  • You shut down emotionally when conflict arises.
  • You tend to get defensive quickly in arguments.
  • You struggle to resolve conflicts peacefully.
  • You believe love and conflict cannot coexist.

How It Affects Adult Relationships

When you grow up in an environment where conflict was handled poorly, your brain associates disagreement with emotional pain. This can show up in relationships in the following ways:

Avoiding tough conversations – You stay silent instead of expressing your needs, fearing it will lead to a fight.
Explosive reactions – You overreact when feeling unheard, mirroring the arguments you witnessed as a child.
Struggling with emotional safety – Even minor conflicts feel threatening, making it hard to trust or relax in relationships.
Repeating toxic cycles – You might find yourself in relationships that resemble the unhealthy conflict patterns of your past.

Healing from Unhealthy Conflict Patterns

Recognize Your Triggers
Pay attention to what happens inside you during conflict. Do you feel anxious? Do you shut down? Do you become aggressive? Identifying your response is the first step to change.

Learn Healthy Communication
Practice expressing concerns in a calm, clear way. Instead of saying, “You never listen to me,” try, “I feel unheard when I express my needs.” This reduces defensiveness and promotes constructive conversation.

Reframe Your View of Conflict
Conflict isn’t inherently bad—it’s how we handle it that matters. When approached with patience and respect, disagreements can lead to growth and deeper connection.

Practice Emotional Regulation
When you feel overwhelmed in an argument, pause. Take deep breaths, step away if needed, and remind yourself that you are safe. Responding calmly instead of reacting emotionally breaks old patterns.

Seek Support
If conflict feels deeply triggering, therapy or relationship coaching can help you unlearn unhealthy behaviors and develop new skills.
Healing from unhealthy conflict patterns takes time, but by working on these areas, you can build healthier, more peaceful relationships.

In our next session, we’ll explore Fear of Abandonment and How It Shapes Love.

Emotional Neglect in Childhood: The Invisible Wound That Shapes Relationships

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What is Emotional Neglect?
When people think of childhood trauma, they often imagine physical abuse, abandonment, or extreme hardship. But one of the most overlooked forms of trauma is emotional neglect—the absence of emotional validation, warmth, or support from caregivers. Unlike physical abuse, which leaves visible scars, emotional neglect is an invisible wound. Many people who experience it don’t even realize they were neglected because they grew up in homes that seemed “normal”
from the outside.

Emotional neglect happens when parents or caregivers fail to respond to a child’s emotional needs. It can be unintentional—perhaps they were overwhelmed, emotionally unavailable themselves, or raised in a culture where expressing emotions wasn’t encouraged. But the impact on the child is profound, often carrying into adulthood and shaping their relationships in ways they struggle to understand.

Signs That You Experienced Emotional Neglect
If you were emotionally neglected as a child, you may notice these patterns in your relationships:

Difficulty identifying or expressing emotions– You may struggle to name what you’re feeling or dismiss emotions as unimportant.

Feeling like your needs don’t matter – You often prioritize others and hesitate to ask for support.

Fear of emotional intimacy – You may keep a safe distance in relationships or feel uneasy when others express deep emotions.

Attracting emotionally unavailable partners – Since neglect feels familiar, you may subconsciously choose partners who cannot fully meet your emotional needs.

Feeling empty or disconnected– A sense of numbness or emotional disconnection, even in moments that should feel joyful or fulfilling.

Struggling with self-worth – You may feel “not enough” or believe you must earn love by being useful rather than simply being yourself.

How Emotional Neglect Affects Relationships
When a child’s emotions are consistently ignored or dismissed, they learn that their feelings are unimportant. As an adult, this belief affects how they relate to others. They may:

Struggle to express their needs– They fear being seen as “too much” or a burden.
Be overly independent – They feel they can’t rely on others, even in close relationships.
Have difficulty handling emotions in a partner – When their partner expresses strong emotions, they may feel overwhelmed or shut down.

Subconsciously seek unavailable partners – They are drawn to partners who do not prioritize emotional connection, reinforcing their childhood experiences.

Healing from Emotional Neglect
Healing starts with recognizing the neglect for what it was—not as a failure on your part, but as something you were missing. Here’s how you can begin:

Acknowledge your emotions – Start tuning in to what you feel, even if it’s uncomfortable. Ask yourself, “What am I feeling right now?” throughout the day.

Practice self-compassion – Remind yourself that your emotions and needs are valid. You deserve to be heard, supported, and loved.

Communicate your needs in relationships – If you struggle to express what you need, start small. Practice saying things like, “I’d really appreciate it if you checked in on me when I’m feeling down.”

Surround yourself with emotionally supportive people – Seek friends or partners who encourage emotional openness and validate your feelings.

Consider therapy or self-reflection exercises – Journaling, therapy, or mindfulness practices can help you reconnect with your emotions and reframe old beliefs.

Breaking free from the effects of emotional neglect takes time, but it’s possible. The more you nurture your emotional self, the more fulfilling your relationships will become.

In our next session, we’ll explore another common source of relationship trauma: Growing Up in a Household with Unhealthy Conflict.

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Where are you leading her? Do you know?

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Once upon a time, the man was the leader of the family. It was important that he had his thoughts organised and at least had an idea where his family was heading and how it would behave.

He was the architect and engineer and somehow his family was a true reflection of his thoughts and beliefs because he actually made sure they all move in the way he thought they should. And because his determination was visible and his instruction clear, his family did not need an introduction as it carried all the well-known mannerisms about him, that people would just point out that a said person had to be his child because they behaved exactly like him.

She on the other hand was his support. Listening clearly to what he suggested and following with trust because she believed in his beliefs and abilities. She had known his abilities since courtship and had placed all her trust that the road map was clear in him.

And then the man changed. He reversed roles without prior notice and agreement with the woman.

He now looked up to her to steer his family forward, leaving her to draw the plans and engineer them. And that left her confused. While she tried to gamble in making the road map and drawing all the structures, she still has to play support because he did not pick up her roles on abandoning his, even as she took on his.

She now has a double burden and she may not be doing a perfect job of it. And now he blames her. And he shamelessly says she is not doing enough. Is it her role to lead the family forward? Is it her role to support her decisions while he does what exactly?

If you are this kind of man, do you realise your union is bumpy because you are moving forward with a confused female? Confused not because she is unable but because she is wondering where she went wrong to have picked up your responsibilities and made them hers even though you still exist in the relationship? Confused because she doesn’t know your role now, to enable her to play her role of support, confused because she is being blamed for things she shouldn’t be….

Do you know she may have emotionally left the relationship even though she is present in person because she can not really piece it together?

Where are you leading her, do you know? Have you made sure she knows if you know?

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At Hamona we love. Love.

Wishing you a happy new year filled with love

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Happy new year!! It’s a new year and a beautiful time to discover, observe and embrace new ways of loving and get on the road to new happiness. You deserve it!

You know sometimes we don’t feel loved because we do not pay attention to love. The beauty of love is that it comes in all sorts of ways and at all sorts of times and with all sorts of vibes. It can be grand and it can be subtle, it can also be illustrious. In whatever way it comes to us, it’s always there if you care to see it.

Each one of us is different and thus we will love differently. Some of us have had no childhood nurture of affection and as thus we do not know the best way to express that which we strongly feel inside, so we struggle with putting on the best display, others have been hurt and traumatized by the ones who would have made them feel comfortable with showing love so they are very careful not to make it bleed, but they love us still in their own way and hope we recognize it, and others know exactly how to paint a perfect picture of what love is doing to them and display it without any fear.

So when we are in love, we need to listen to love’s actions with our inner hearts and see it with our inner mind.

It can come in the seemingly small fact that she or he waited for that midnite hour to wish you a happy new day which indicates that he or she was thinking about you all this while but kept carefully waiting for that moment when it made the most sense. Show me, love, if this is not it.

Love is made of little moments and big moments, by not focusing on only the big stuff we get to enjoy the beautiful situation and feeling that love is.

What is your partner’s loving style? Is it grand, subtle or illustrious? If you have not found out what it is, give yourself a chance to examine their little and big acts with an open mind, you may discover all the love that you’ve been missing and in the process, you may take your happiness and appreciation to a new level.

At Hamona we love to love. Love

You know that love is not a single application kind of feeling.

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You know that love is not a single application kind of feeling. Right? You know that just because you bought her a beautiful necklace yesterday doesn’t mean she is fixed forever right? You know that just because you took her to the movies last February doesn’t mean she is still riding on that right? You know that just because you bought her a beautiful, delicious Hamona treat she still needs more. Right?

Love is a situation that needs regular evaluation and constant care to keep it in good shape. Sometimes we love by just being in tune with the other’s feelings, sometimes we love by being there even when they are being unreasonable because sometimes, truthfully, we all become unreasonable.

Sometimes we love by being the source of strength for the other, or even for both of us, sometimes, by being the drape that covers the other’s nakedness, yet sometimes by being the very soul that carries them along.

Sometimes by being the glue that makes the bond stick properly, because sometimes life’s little battles may seem to tear us apart. Sometimes we love by upholding the values that we know the other holds dear even when life is making it hard for them to keep those values themselves.

I said love is a situation. It’s a situation that brings feelings. Feelings that motivate us to fly or be our best selves ever. Feelings that make us see life in a positive way, feelings that inspire us to love living itself, feelings that make our very existence worthwhile.

Love is a situation that we have to continuously pamper in order for it to be desirable. If you bought her something yesterday, tell her today how she makes you feel, open yourself up and give her you, take her to a beautiful place next week or hold her regularly for no reason. Tell her how beautiful she is, tell her how important and impactful she is in your life and be genuine, take interest in her life and what means the world to her, take away her pain as best as you can…..

This situation that love is, is made beautiful by active thoughtfulness. And that’s what makes it grow.

So, thank you for buying her a Hamona treat last time. Thank you for supporting Hamona confectionery, men like you are the hinge that life is held on, you are very important to our existence. And please go through our shop and pick her another delicious treat as we have many to delight her.

Together let us make this situation as desirable and as enveloping as can ever be. Let’s grow love and make our lives better for living. Giving is a double-sided sword. It cuts both ways. In a good way.

Hamona. We love. Love.